May162013
In every important way we are such secrets from one another, and I do believe that there is a separate language in each of us, also a separate aesthetics and a separate jurisprudence. Every single one of us is a little civilization built on the ruins of any number of preceding civilizations, but with our own variant notions of what is beautiful and what is acceptable - which, I hasten to add, we generally do not satisfy and by which we struggle to live. We take fortuitous resemblances among us to be actual likeness, because those around us have also fallen heir to the same customs, trade in the same coin, acknowledge, more or less, the same notions of decency and sanity. But all that really just allows us to coexist with the inviolable, intraversable, and utterly vast spaces between us.
Marilynn Robinson, Gilead
May152013
He will wipe the tears from all faces.’ It takes nothing from the loveliness of the verse to say that is exactly what will be required.
Marilynn Robinson, Gilead
this book, you guys.
10PM
From the first winter afternoon in the Harvard ball fields, “Oh no—I need you” had become an admission and a clarion call—the tenet of dependency that forms the weft of friendship. We needed each other so that we could count the endless days of forests and flat water, but the real need was soldered by the sadder, harder moments—discord or helplessness or fear—that we dared to expose to each other. It took me years to grasp that this grit and discomfort in any relationship are an indicator of closeness, not its opposite.
Let’s Take the Long Way Home: A Memoir of Friendship by Gail Caldwell
March282013
When I was young, I used to admire intelligent people; as i grow older, I admire kind people.
Abraham Joshua Heschel (via wendesgray)(Source: truinn-ou, via lauracricket)